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Weekly Quote<\/strong><\/p>\n

“Don’t waste your time taking anything personally. Whatever people say about you is just a projection of their image of you. It has nothing to do with you.” Miguel Ruiz<\/em>Weekly TimBit<\/p>\n

– Relationship seasons:<\/p>\n

Every relationship passes through seasons just like the seasons of the year. Let me explain.<\/p>\n

First there is spring.<\/p>\n

Spring is about new growth, new opportunities and hope for the future. It represents a vision for what can be.\u00a0 Gardner’s know that every spring what has laid dormant for a few months will soon sprout into a wondrous display of color and life.\u00a0 Relationships, when they are new are filled with possibilities and hope for a positive, nurturing future.\u00a0 There is no room for doubt or negative feelings or attitudes.\u00a0 Everything is fresh and exciting.\u00a0 They are filled with passion, laughter and the wonder of discovery.\u00a0 It is a wonderful time, this springtime of relationships.<\/p>\n

Then there is summer.<\/p>\n

Summer is a playful time filed with adventure, activity, long hot days and cool nights (depending on where you live of course).\u00a0 Summer is a time of days when nature spreads its wings and shows off its diversity and uniqueness. There can also be thunderous storms that appear in an instant rearing their ugly head as people run for cover against the wind and rain. In relationships summer is a time of fun, new understanding and a willingness to compromise.\u00a0 It is when people learn what they can and cannot expect.\u00a0 Summer is when a person’s guard comes down and they learn the reality of their partner’s dreams, hopes, frustrations, doubts and yes all of their idiosyncrasies and inner struggles. It can be a time of adjustment and acceptance or rejection and stress, a continuation of the beauty of spring or the realization and disappointment of settling for less that you had hoped for.<\/p>\n

Fall always follows summer.<\/p>\n

The trees share their splendor and the flowers begin their retreat and preparation for the long cold winter ahead. The days grow shorter and the nights are cooler.\u00a0 The air is crisp and clean, long gone are the humid days of summer.\u00a0\u00a0 The fall in relationships is when there is a realization that it is time to accept that you will never find the perfect partner, that you must learn to live with, love and accept who is now in your life.\u00a0 The excitement and passion of spring can still peek through the fallen leaves and the joy and love can grow into a new dimension but only if there has been growth and learning during the summer.\u00a0 Fall can be a time of resentment and frustration where the days are filled with longing and stuffed desires.\u00a0 There is beauty in the fall but there can also uncertainty, fear and a realization that winter, the end of the beauty and excitement will soon be a distant memory.<\/p>\n

And finally winter comes.<\/p>\n

The days are short and the bitter cold penetrates your essence regardless of the thickness of your garments.\u00a0 The trees are bare and the blue skies of fall are now covered with in a blue gray shield that keeps the sun hidden from your view. Winters in relationships come to everyone.\u00a0 There are lonesome nights and fearful days.\u00a0 There is adversity and sickness, abandonment and bitterness.\u00a0 These days seem to cut to the core of our life leaving us afraid and uncertain of our future and what it might bring.\u00a0 But remember, if you can weather the winter, spring is just around the corner where new beginnings once again share themselves in the hopes that you will be ready to embrace once again the joy, the passion and the love that you once felt.<\/p>\n

Seasons in relationships are as predictable as the seasons of the calendar.\u00a0 You can’t keep spring around for ever and winter comes whether you like it or want it or not.\u00a0 So why not just relax and enjoy the passing seasons in your relationship as you do watching spring fade into summer and summer becoming fall.<\/p>\n

Question for the week<\/strong><\/p>\n

Which relationship season are you in and how are you handling it?<\/p>\n

Recommended Reading<\/strong><\/p>\n

Givers and Takers, Evatt<\/p>\n

Make it a great week, In His service, Tim<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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